Whether it is love at first sight or a long-term relationship, after a long time, the passion will be lost, and the contradictory thoughts of wanting to break up but being reluctant to leave will arise. The main reason for such thoughts is that you are not willing to accept yourself. The emotion you have given.
This situation happens more to boys. After some boys have been in love for a period of time, they feel that they have to contribute money and effort, and they have to listen to girls’ nagging every day. , and it is easy to make the other party angry, so it is inevitable that you will have the idea of ??breaking up, but because you have paid for the other party, you will also have the thought of being reluctant to let go, making you hesitant.
It is not easy for two people to get to know each other in a huge crowd, and these emotions are just temporary thoughts after the relationship enters the burnout period. It is best to think clearly before making a decision. Anyway, the editor here does not recommend breaking up. So what should we do in this situation?
1. Don’t be impulsive
When you have the idea of ??breaking up time, this means that there is really a problem between you. If you want to solve it properly, then you need to take time to think about it, calm yourself down, and never say breakup out of anger.
2. Imagining you after leaving her
This is not to ask you to think about a way out before leaving, but to make you ponder in your heart whether you really love the other person. If you leave, You will be very happy with the other person, and you will definitely be happier with another person than with your current partner. In addition, can your partner bear your departure? After all, you once loved each other deeply, so there is no need to hurt the other person too hard. Sometimes, it's not too late to wait until you think about it before making a decision.
3. Have a good chat with your significant other
Talk openly and honestly with your partner about your feelings. and perceptions of relationships. If you can regain spiritual synchronicity and understanding through mutual growth, the relationship will become more mature after experiencing these difficulties. If the two of you are going too far on the road of life, then thanking each other for the existence and contribution in life and saying goodbye gracefully can be regarded as the most beautiful blessing.
4. Long live understanding
When two people are together, friction is inevitable, so they must understand each other. Only by understanding the other person's situation can you understand the other person's mood. Don't let your conflicts intensify because of your own incomprehension. It can be said that you are very lucky to meet each other.
5. Talk to others
"The authorities are confused, but the bystanders know clearly." So when you really don’t know what to do When things get better, why not go find your friends and tell them about what happened between you?As a friend, I definitely want you to do well, so I will definitely give you some pertinent opinions for your reference. But when you talk, you must stay calm and speak in a neutral manner. Don't always say things that are good for yourself and bad for others.
6. Try to change yourself
Everyone has a different personality, and being able to live together must have gone through It took a lot of running-in to get it together. So if you want to live happily together, think about making changes for each other. Only in this way will both of you think about each other, which will be more conducive to the development of your relationship and make your relationship better and better.
