Sometimes when you confess to a girl, she will not reject you directly or agree to you immediately. Girls usually choose a more tactful way to express their feelings. Because girls don’t like to directly reject someone who likes them, and girls will not directly agree to a boy out of reserve. So what does it mean when you confess to a girl that she needs to think about it? What to do next?
1. The girl wants to delay the test of you
Since the girl said she would consider it, it does not count as a direct rejection of you. From a girl’s point of view, I think maybe the girl may have feelings for you. I have a good impression of her, but I am afraid that your liking for her will only be temporary. So I want to delay the answer by saying "think about it" to see if you will continue to pursue her. But in this case, as a boy, you can't be hung up. You can try to give her some time, for example, "I'll give you time to think about it slowly. Can you tell me the result before twelve o'clock tonight?" During this period, don't sit still, try to do something, ask her out to play, be gentle when getting along, clearly express that you like her very much, and then tell her at the end, "It doesn't matter if you don't like me very much now, as long as you are right As long as you like me and don’t dislike me, I can make you like me.” Although it’s a bit cliché, if a girl really likes you, there is no pressure to be with you, and she can definitely agree to be together!
If the girl still says that she needs time to think about it, let her think about it. Don't be in a hurry to ask for an answer. Just be anxious. If not, it will do you no good. If you can make an appointment to go shopping and have a meal, make the appointment as usual and keep in touch with her more often. This will calm her confusion, and also allow her to further consider your relationship and see how good you are. Another thing is to be yourself, maintain a normal mentality, do what you usually do, don't lose yourself, be a little more confident, and act according to the original plan in a hurry (don't show too much care, it will give people psychological pressure and oppression) feel).
2. Girls want to hang on to you
Some girls may be in contact with more than one boy at the same time. She may have a certain liking for you, but not to the point where she likes you very much. Or maybe there was another boy chasing her at the same time, and she couldn't make a decision for the moment. In short, I just don’t like you enough. If you can indeed find out from the girl's behavior or chat history that a girl is hanging on to you, it is recommended that you step back from the brink and let the girl make the decision. Otherwise, you may show your sincerity, but the girl is still there and you compare yourself with other boys chasing her. Even if you use your excellence to catch her, she is not a good person and will suffer in the future. It's still you.
Of course, there are actually many good girls in society. It is very difficult to confess to a girl that she will consider hanging you. It's rare, but boys themselves have to be more careful.
