Most girls are more cautious about love, so if a girl just has some good feelings for you but no special feelings yet, and you confess her love to you, she may not agree to you directly, but will say "try it first" Try" to answer you. So what does she mean by trying it first?
I want to understand that girls "try it first" means, you need to refer to her usual reactions for reference. If she usually has a good impression and a little admiration for you, it may be that she agrees to your confession, and it also shows that she also has this intention for you; if She is usually very indifferent to you, and often doesn't care about what you say, and will answer with "hmm", which also means that she is perfunctory with you. Maybe she doesn't like you, but she just doesn't dare to say it directly for fear of hurting your self-esteem. . But having said that, if you really like such a girl, then you have no reason to hesitate.
But in fact, if a girl doesn’t like you, she will definitely reject you directly after you confess her love. But girls It's not to reject you directly, but to say let's give it a try first, to at least prove that this girl has a crush on you. If you always get along naturally and interact well. Note that it is interaction, not your unilateral contribution. Then when you confess your love to a girl and she says to try it first, it basically proves that she likes you.
From a physiological point of view, girls are a vulnerable group, and they have many more emotional concerns than boys. Therefore, it is difficult for many girls to directly accept the confession of boys.
She can say this, and you should be able to feel her sincerity.
Of course, you may feel overwhelmed in this situation. Regarding this, you might as well think like this, how can a boy be timid? Therefore, you might as well express your thoughts directly and continue to ask the other person.
Another situation is that you have been giving unilaterally, and you have given too much, and there are no more girls around you. The right person, so I want to give you each other a chance. But don’t think too much and think that you are a spare tire. You should know better. If she was really the kind of emotional master who plays with emotions, you probably wouldn't be so obsessed with her. So it's only right to seize this opportunity and show her your charm instead of giving it all.
In fact, many times when a girl says "try it first", it is an excuse for herself and for you.
Try it. In this process, you slowly become familiar from strangers, relying on each other and cherishing each other. What you have to do at this time is actually not that troublesome, and you don’t need a lot of tricks. You just need to make her feel it during this process.Just your concern and liking will give her enough sense of security. Let it be.
The above only represents my personal opinion. Love is a matter of different personalities and each has its own story. If you really want to know What a girl wants to express, it is recommended to ask her directly and ask her what she thinks. After all, it is healthy for both parties to be sincere in a relationship and not deceive so much.
