You can always hear boys saying, why should men chase women? Isn’t it okay for women to chase men? So today I will tell you the truth about girls not taking the initiative. Why do most girls not take the initiative to pursue boys? You'll understand after reading it.
The truth about girls not taking the initiative
1. Girls are influenced by the culture of reserve
To be honest, girls don’t take the initiative more because they are afraid of what you think She is not reserved enough, and she is more afraid that you will think that she is so easy to get, that you do not cherish her or value her, or that you think she is a casual person. After all, if a girl suddenly becomes enthusiastic and does something unexpected, it will make boys feel weird. . So sometimes girls would rather miss a boy they like than actively pursue him.
2. Girls are afraid of losing
For example, girls from the south may want to find a boy from the north to date. Well, when she wants to find a boy with a personality and talent that matches her in all aspects, she may have checked that there is no such boy around her, and her family may also reject the fact that this boy is from out of town, and then there may be various Crying and fussing will put you in a dilemma, and you will feel soft-hearted and sad, because I am afraid that this relationship will lose, and I am also afraid that after marriage, he will be smoothed by the product oil and salt, and there will be no passion, so girls will hesitate. , and then missed it, over time it may be like before, so in the end most southern girls will choose locals due to pressure from their families.
3. There is no drive as you get older
Those girls who actively pursue boys for love are generally young. If girls are older and have passed a more impulsive age, they will also I didn't talk about getting married. I just thought about making progress and working hard to make money. So why should she take the initiative? Isn’t it good for one person to make money and only one person to spend it?
4. Not that longing for love
The amount of information nowadays is still relatively large, with all kinds of news When it comes out, it will affect this girl's view of love. She may feel that there are fewer and fewer happy people, so they don't seem to have such longing for this love. And everyone knows that excellent people rarely circulate. They are all tied to each other, and the rest just look down on each other. After all, everyone suffers from each other, just because they are afraid that the other party will suddenly drive a Land Rover, right.
The above is a summary of the truth about girls not taking the initiative. In fact, it is not just girls who are not taking the initiative. Boys are also like this gradually. I just thought, maybe I am not even 1.8 meters tall. , and then, it seems that he is not said to be handsome, and his conditions are not very good. Well, his education is not high enough, and he does not say that he has a lot of money. He is not romantic enough. He has been wandering in self-limitation and regret, thinking about being rich in the future. It will be better if you try hard to make some money first, right? This womanThe student is indeed very good. I will wait until I am outstanding before pursuing her. As a result, she is already a wife after you become outstanding. I missed it like this. I am also very sorry. Therefore, this article today also advises everyone to take action when it is time to take action. .
