Many boys think very well when they first start chasing girls. They should rely on their own strength to attract girls instead of becoming a licking dog chasing girls. However, if they chase girls, they will unconsciously become a licking dog. . Why does chasing a girl end up licking her? Will there be consequences if you chase a girl and kneel down and lick her?
1. You pay more and more to chase a girl
Because you like her, you will subconsciously invest "emotion", "time" and "energy" in the other person. These are all sacrifices. And people are animals that crave feedback. They want to get "good results" when they do something. If you treat a girl well and chase her, of course you want her to become your girlfriend in the end.
But often when the results are not satisfactory, you will invest more emotions and reason. When you invest more and more in chasing girls, you become more and more unable to extricate yourself. Suddenly, even if you stop the loss, you will feel that your previous efforts were in vain - this is a sunk cost. Besides, when what you give to her is greater than what she gives to you, it becomes "licking".
2. If you chase a girl, you will lick unconsciously
You asked me why I will lick unconsciously if I chase a girl. It's driven by desire and human nature. From the perspective of attraction: a girl's attraction > your attraction, you will be driven by her to lick her. Your attractiveness > If some girls are attractive, those girls will take the initiative to chase you.
When boys choose a partner, they are all backward compatible. When girls choose partners, they are all upwardly matched. When your status is higher, you are handsome enough, and your overall value is high enough, it will be easier to attract girls who are not as good as you. But if you want to attract girls who are similar to you or even better and better than you, it will be very difficult.
This is the principle of attraction: the kind of person you are will attract the kind of person you are.
3. How to avoid kneeling and licking when chasing a girl
Then how to avoid becoming a licking dog? Just build yourself up and then attract those girls who are interested in you and take the initiative. Stop working hard on those who are dismissive of you in the first place and spend your energy on those who are interested in you. Don’t treat the other person as a goddess, don’t put all your eggs in one basket, love yourself > love the other person. The girl will naturally feel that you are uncontrollable, which will arouse her desire to conquer you. In this case, she will take the initiative to show favor to you.
In fact, there is no result in chasing a girl, kneeling and licking her. In the end, she will be looked down upon by the girl and she will have no desire to fall in love with you. People will only respect those who love them. When you do things like "licking", "being humble" and "acting like a cow", your favorability will plummet. Finally, he becomes a tool man or a spare tire.
Therefore, I hope everyone can control themselves appropriately when chasing girls and be polite when chatting.Show highlights on the side of your mind, create photos of your clean life in your circle of friends, and implant a sense of fun and laughter in your chats. The three parts are combined to attract you. Faced with such an outstanding boy, it is difficult for a girl to like you or not.
