If you feel that it is not going well in the process of chasing girls, either there is something wrong with the way you chase girls, or the girl clearly shows that she does not want you to chase her, but you are careless and do not notice it, resulting in The more you chase girls, the more impatient you become. Below, the editor will share with you the signs that a girl doesn’t want you to pursue her, so you can discover her intentions earlier and avoid detours.
1. Chatting with you is not warm
If you chat with a girl, the girl will respond better and will take the initiative to expand the topic rather than just deal with it. She will even take the initiative to chat with you (help you) Except) It means that girls are actually willing to keep in contact with you. If every time you chat with a girl, you are um, oh, haha, go take a shower, chat with her for a few words and then disappear. If you don’t talk to her, she won’t talk to you either. If you ask her out and you ask her out, you will find various reasons to refuse, then it proves that she is a girl. She doesn't want you to chase her. She feels like it's a burden for you to chat with her and wants to get rid of you as soon as possible.
2. Refuse to have physical contact with you
There is another way to determine whether a girl wants you to chase her. The way to do this is to try to make physical contact. Of course, you need to make a rational excuse for your physical contact in advance, otherwise the girl will think you are being a hooligan. For example, when there are many people crossing the road, grab a girl's arm (if you dare not hold hands) and hold her while you walk. If a girl strongly resists and expresses her desire to leave on her own, it’s obvious that she doesn’t like her at all. Because it has been rationalized, there are many people, and she is afraid that she will not be safe. If you are a little reserved and resist, it can only mean that you don't hate you. If you are shy and bow your head, congratulations.
3. He will not take the initiative to find you
Feelings are mutual and cannot be pursued unilaterally by boys alone. , girls also need to express themselves. Therefore, after a boy takes the initiative for a while, he might as well calm down first and see if a girl will take the initiative to find you. If a girl takes the initiative to chat and invite you, the higher the initiative and the smaller the purpose (for example, asking you for help), the more likely it is that the girl will like you. Of course, there are also girls who are sultry and full of inner feelings but don’t take the initiative. Then it’s up to you to test, take the initiative to make physical contact, take the initiative to talk about some emotional topics, and make the momentum to pursue. If the other party doesn’t resist, it also shows that the girl is hopeful. You go after her. If the girl still doesn't take the initiative and treats you indifferently after you cool down, it means that the girl doesn't want you to chase her anymore.
4. Don’t pay attention to the image in front of you
When girls face the person they like, Always show your best side to attract boys. If a girl doesn't pay attention to her image in front of you, doesn't wear makeup, wears casual clothes, eats and drinks regardless of her image, and doesn't even think that her behavior will scare you away, she might be doing this on purpose to show you. See her bad side and then give uppursue her.
The sign that a girl doesn’t want you to pursue her actually means that she doesn’t care much about your pursuit and won’t give you any positive feedback. In response, she will not accept the efforts you make to her, because her attitude is very clear: I don't like you, don't pursue and disturb me anymore.
