Flirting with girls on WeChat is not the same as flirting with girls in real life. Girls don’t have that much patience to understand you. Therefore, if your opening statement is not good enough and you don’t have the motivation for her to reply, she will easily pass you by.
Some people, after adding a girl on WeChat, will only open the message with a plain "Hello". The girl doesn't know how many such messages she will receive in a day, so how can she reply? Desire?
Some people started:
“Do you have 50 cents?”
“Yes, what’s wrong?”
< p> "I also have 50 cents, let's join together"....
Such as this, you need to know that when you are seriously pursuing a girl, you still need to think carefully before opening your mouth. If you apply mechanically regardless of who the target is, it will be counterproductive in many cases.
If you are chasing girls, you need to strike a balance: on the one hand, you need to show some interest in this girl, because nowadays girls are rarely willing to spend time chatting with boys who are not interested in them. Yes, they don't want to waste time.
On the other hand, your opening chat should not reveal your strong sense of need or give girls a feeling of "you have to do it". This will arouse girls' resentment and defensive emotions, and will also He seems immature, and girls won't like such a boy.
So how can the WeChat flirting opening statement be more appropriate and practical:
The answer is, use: Clues to open the game
Find clues based on the photos or avatars in the girl’s circle of friends to start the game. The advantage of this method is that it can continue the topic very well, and the other party can answer the conversation according to his own opening, which makes it convenient for you and the girl to have a harmonious chat atmosphere during the acquaintance stage.
At the same time, the clue opening statement also has the advantage of showing its own value sideways.
Example:
For example, a girl posts a selfie of herself in a circle of friends, and the girl wears a necklace in the selfie. , you can use this clue to open:
You said: "I saw the selfie in your circle of friends, this Cartier necklace is very beautiful"
Such a clue opening method, if you You can see the luxury goods, decorations, etc. on a woman, which can better reflect your understanding of luxury goods and show your taste and knowledge. Generally speaking, a woman's first impression of you will be very good. From the beginning It has its own attraction.
Of course, some girls may not have such a situation., it may be that she runs in the circle of friends, or keeps pets, or even does not have a photo of herself in the avatar, but is just a certain anime character. You can trouble yourself and search for this anime character on Baidu to understand it. As a way to start your remarks: </ p>
Faced with different situations, you can use this opening statement
You can say:
< p> "You also like to exercise and run""You also like little pets"
"You also like to watch Detective Conan"
I I believe that girls will reply to you. Will she think that the person opposite me has the same interests and hobbies as me?
Yes, when a girl says: "Yes",
You can then reply: "I like it too, balabala... It seems that this is our first tacit understanding." (The sentence "the first tacit understanding" will be felt in the girl's subconscious mind, and the two of you will have "Story" is the feeling of "being among the same people")
Therefore, learn to use clue opening methods flexibly, and you can easily open them when facing strange girls, or girls you like or pursue. Topic, let each other continue the topic well, let each other understand each other better, understand each other.
