If the girl you like or your girlfriend has a male best friend, I think most boys will have a sense of crisis. They are afraid that the girl’s male best friend will affect their pursuit of girls, and they are afraid that one day their girlfriend’s male best friend will cheat on them. . Because most boys actually doubt: Is it really a pure friendship for a girl to have a male best friend? Let’s answer this question for you below.
1. It’s really pure friendship when a girl has a male best friend
1. Of course it’s possible for a girl to have a pure friendship with her male best friend. Isn’t it just that the male best friend likes boys... Just giving examples, not discussing whether there is only pure friendship in other situations.
2. The prerequisite for a pure friendship between girls is that you are not interested in her, and she is not interested in you, and the mate preferences of both parties are quite different from each other; or both parties have already married. Like two parallel lines, they can never intersect.
3. Since girls and boys define each other as best friends at the beginning, of course they have pure friendship. But the relationship between people is not constant, which means that even the relationship between best friends may change during development and develop in other directions. Therefore, the relationship between best friends does exist. As for how long this relationship exists, it depends on the individual. Variables, in fact, not only this kind of relationship, but also other relationships in life are constantly changing. Finding a balance point in the constant changes is the prerequisite for the stability of this relationship.
4. In fact, there is true friendship between girls and boys and they help each other. It’s great for girls to have a male best friend and they can say anything. Those who think there is no pure friendship between men and women are just being really ambiguous under the guise of friendship.
2. If a girl has a male best friend, it is not a pure friendship.
1. Many girls may say, "My male best friend and I are a pure friendship. Don't get me wrong." I believe that between girls There will be pure friendship between them, but I don’t really believe that there is pure friendship between girls and male best friends. Why? Because a best friend means a close friend among a girl, and a girl’s best friend is a boy. I believe that as long as a boy’s girlfriend has a male best friend, he may feel resentful. Maybe what the girl said, "Oh, I treat him as a woman, he treats me as a man, and we have nothing" is indeed her true inner thought. Then can you guarantee that her male best friend also thinks the same way? Can you believe that a guy buys a girl that during her period just because they are good besties? Do you dare to say that when a girl is sick, her boyfriend brings her tea and water because he treats her as a good friend? Even a man would be suspicious.
2. If a girl is single and has a single male best friend, then your relationship must not be pure. She may have someone she likes, and you may also have someone you like. But your relationship is still not pure. Why do you say that? If you find a girlfriend, you used to accompany her when she was sick or shopping, but nowYou are accompanying your girlfriend, what will the girl think at this time? Don't tell me it's calm. The dog at home will become anxious if it runs away. Girls may want to talk to each other when something goes wrong or when they quarrel with their boyfriends. Because it’s really easy for people of the opposite sex to deal with this. Either the girl wants to use her male best friend as a backup after falling out of love, but the girl doesn't want to admit it, because the girl is really not interested in you, but she doesn't want to lose your kindness to her. If you find a girlfriend and then gradually become estranged from her, it proves that your relationship is impure. Otherwise, how could you give up this close relationship because of the intervention of another person? You have done nothing wrong.
