There are many boys who feel that girls are inexplicable, and they just talk perfunctorily, haha, talk again... As everyone knows, it is not the girls who are inexplicable, but it is very likely that straight men have violated the restricted area of ????girls' chat. Below, the education editor will share with you what topics you should not touch when chatting with girls?
1. Do not exaggerate or brag when chatting, and refuse to use swear words
This is a basic principle. Bragging is actually your attempt to prove yourself in front of her and leave a good impression on her through bragging. In fact, this is very dangerous. However, it is okay to say that you have really admirable things to say, but this is not the norm, and it is okay to do it occasionally. Women hate men who brag. If your admirable story doesn't impress her, it's best not to tell it. You should not use swear words until you are particularly familiar with them. You may think you are handsome, but girls will think you are uneducated, which will be regarded as disrespectful, uncivilized, and impolite to the other party.
2. Tell colorful jokes
Many people fall into misunderstandings and become poisoned It's too deep. Whenever I talk to someone of the opposite sex, I can't help but talk about sex, and I can't help but tell dirty jokes. Many people are so poisoned that they cannot even communicate with girls normally. There are actually a lot of people like this, and they give people the impression that they are nymphomaniacs who are acting like gangsters. To such people, I just want to say: "If you don't respect the other party, why should the other party care about you?" No normal good girl can accept such a chat with a strange person of the opposite sex, and can talk to you. The only people talking are extremely horny women with low moral values ??who are just waiting for a date. Excuse me, would you dare to pursue such a woman as your girlfriend/wife? If you like wearing a green hat, then you can try it.
3. Uninnovative opening remarks
"Hello!" Hello, beauty." "What are you doing?"
Such opening remarks are so stereotyped that girls are tired of them.
In addition, there is something even more annoying for girls: the tracking and investigation mode is on all the time, asking if you got up in the morning? Have you had breakfast? What kind of breakfast did you have? Did you eat at noon? What did you eat? I asked you if you had dinner in the evening? What did you eat?... I want to tell you that when a girl faces such a question, she must be complaining in her heart: "Damn it, I know how to eat, eat, eat, eat, eat, eat, eat, eat, eat, eat, eat, eat, eat, eat, eat, eat, eat every day!" Are there no other topics to talk about?"
So I say, if you don’t have a better opening line, just stop talking.. Even if this girl starts to feel good about you, after a week of asking "Have you eaten?", she will be extremely bored with you!
Please remember, when chatting with girls, use more declarative sentences and less use of questions. , for example, you can use an interesting opening:
Male: Sorry!
Female: What’s wrong? (Huh?)
Male: I’m keeping you so late You just met me (laughing)
Isn’t it very interesting, and it attracts girls instantly.
4. Don’t complain
Everyone likes positive things. In fact, this is not just true when chatting with girls, it is the same when chatting and communicating with anyone. Yes, if you want to attract others during a chat and make them have a good impression of you, then you must not complain blindly or talk about negative topics. This will only contaminate your emotions to others and make others want you more. Stay away from you. Women will not like a man who complains all day long. Complaining blindly will only make others annoying.
5. Pick a topic that you are not good at and talk nonsense
As the saying goes Okay, use your strengths and avoid weaknesses. This is also the case when we chat with girls every day. Just like when going on a date, you should choose a place you are familiar with. When chatting, try to bring the topic to the field that you are good at. Never discuss topics that you are not interested in with a girl. You will not be able to talk to her at all, and it will only become more and more embarrassing.
It is best to chat about topics that both parties are interested in. For example, emotional topics, and other topics such as travel, food, etc. But my suggestion is that the chat should be more casual and there is no need to deliberately find topics.
In fact, just keep a normal mind when chatting with girls, just as casually as you usually chat with friends. If you deliberately look for topics, the results will not be good. In addition, just be careful not to violate the above taboos when chatting with girls.
