There are very big differences in the thinking of men and women, and girls are sensitive creatures. If you only think according to boys’ habitual thinking when chasing girls, you will probably commit some taboos about chasing girls. , making all previous efforts come to nothing. So what should you pay attention to when chasing girls? Let’s analyze it in three stages.
1. Taboos in pursuit
I don’t know whether it is a common problem shaped by the social environment or whether it is If we like it too much, when we see the girl we like, we can always use an unprecedented "efficient rhythm".
From the moment I fell in love at first sight, I wanted to fast forward to the lights-out time. Even before she even figured out the other person's name, she quickly completed the name of the baby she gave birth to.
Of course, there are also some that are slightly relaxed. Slowly we got to know each other, became familiar with each other, became friends, and started to commit to each other. He was eager to make promises and pledges to each other, as grand and grand as he wanted them to be. He spoke too full of words, and he only wanted to win her over as soon as possible.
As everyone knows, haste makes waste. No matter how anxious we are about our commitment, the other party will despise us. Can you imagine, does the boss who paints a pie for you have sincerity? No, he only has interests. With things like feelings, it's not advisable to rush for quick success.
2. Taboos in ambiguous situations
Although this stage is the most exciting, hormonal and sweet stage, But there are also murderous intentions hidden everywhere, so that most people collapse when they are almost successful. As the saying goes, a person who travels a hundred miles has half a mile, which is not unreasonable. The more you get to the end, the more careful you have to be and the more you need to know how to measure.
I know that we are not willing to give without getting anything in return, not willing to have feelings without status, and not willing to let her spread her feelings except for you. But, everyone has freedom before the relationship is confirmed, right? Being too controlling will only make her feel uncomfortable, which will arouse her concerns about your relationship, and will not speed up the relationship process.
At this stage, you need to know your limits, keep your greed, anger, and ignorance firmly in check, and keep your distance. Only when you make the other person feel comfortable with you will she consider the next step. for happy ending, is it not a bad idea to hide one's strength and bide one's time, to take advantage of others' courage?
3. Taboos when feelings fade
People People's emotions have curves and will not stay high forever. Their feelings will always fade. This is understandable. But if relationships are just for experiencing passion, we will enter an endless loop.
For example, it starts with controlling the face, legs, breasts, and body posture. In the end, the big breasts and brainless body are not important. In the blink of an eye, it started out as being clever, simple and high-minded, but in the end, I still felt that appearance was important. To put it bluntly, I just want to feelExperience the passion of love between men and women. Once the feelings fade, immediately forget the kindness and responsibility, and start to enter the fantasy of the next person.
Therefore, the entire love life is almost entirely in a cycle of experiencing passion, emotional cooling, and experiencing passion. As everyone knows, the long-term relationship we yearn for is actually abandoned by ourselves.
So, sometimes we need to ask ourselves, are we really ready to love with all our heart? It’s not just passion, it’s about family affection, responsibility, and love.
