Even if many boys go on a blind date with a girl and the results are good, in the subsequent contact with the girl on the blind date, they do not know how to advance the relationship in a timely manner, which leads to a change in the girl's attitude towards him. What could have been possible is ruined by him. So what should we do? Let me share with you the process and skills of dating and love, as well as the normal development steps of dating.
1. Open up the topic in a blind date chat
Many boys have a problem when meeting girls on a blind date, that is, they like to check the household registration to lay the foundation of the relationship. But to be honest, which girl just asks for information when she likes her? Boys are rational and direct, but girls are emotional and look at feelings. If we are too direct, it will be counterproductive and make girls have a bad first impression of us. So we might as well open the topic and gradually understand the information and situation of the girl on the blind date, so that you can calmly chat on the other party's points of interest.
2. Show your own value on blind dates
In fact, blind dates are a process of weighing each other between men and women. , you are also attractive and valuable enough to attract the attention of girls on a blind date. Many boys don't reply to your messages when girls you meet are on a blind date, and they treat you hot and cold. In fact, the most fundamental reason is that we don't show our own value.
In other words, if Peng Yuyan comes, even if he is indifferent to girls and ignores them, I believe there will be a lot of girls surrounding him, so when we can show our own value, then our own Whether good or bad, we will make the other person feel that we are very individual and distinctive.
Of course, expressing yourself can also be understood as having your own subjective ideas and being yourself, and not objecting or arguing because of the other person’s point of view. One message we need to make sure is that we will not follow the crowd and let girls think we are This is the person the other party has been waiting for!
Of course, self-confidence is also very important, because after all, girls come here to fall in love and find a marriage partner, not to find a straight man who still has a long way to go. When we can put ourselves in someone else's shoes, understand the starting point of a girl on a blind date and prescribe the right medicine, then the original intention of getting out of singles is a time process.
3. Implant feelings during a blind date
If you want your relationship to improve during a blind date, Implanting ambiguity is definitely indispensable. At the same time, if we are always timid and dare not adjust the atmosphere, then girls will think that we are just chatting and making friends. Remember, girls are reserved and know everything, but only if you say and do it, can the other person feel it!
Whether you are caring, paying attention to details, or whether you are talking about future love and what will happen after you are worth looking forward to, remember that this is very necessary! When you can get a girl to be attracted to this relationship and to you and herself, you will really be able to get out of the relationship quickly and quickly.
Finally, the process and skills of dating and love are shared here. I hope that boys can use their souls in the process of dating girls. Get out of singles as soon as possible.
