You should act like a fool. Theoretically speaking, when it comes to love, girls' mental nerve cells are more sensitive, and they will naturally appear more sensible and watery. But when you are actively making friends, the window paper almost bursts, and the other party is unaware, so it is not ignorance, but indifference.
Girls don’t like it very much. It can be roughly divided into two situations:
The first is boredom. Girls hate being able to keep a distance from you as soon as possible, and even think that getting along with you is time-consuming;
The second type is not like it, but it is not dislike either. Even girls really want to be friends with you, but they really have no other ideas except friendship.
The first general performance is remarkable, and if you are not overconfident, you should be able to sense it.
In the second case, the boundaries are unclear and generally difficult to distinguish.
Therefore, this article mainly conducts an in-depth analysis of the second situation:
1. It will be stupid to deal with you.
This characteristic is relatively direct and obvious. It is to see if a girl will get close to you and act stupid.
Theoretically, when it comes to love, a girl’s mental nerve cells are more sensitive, and she will naturally appear more sensible and cool; in other words, if she is really interested in you, even if you just express Friendly, she's also likely to have fun finding candy in the broken glass.
But when you are actively making friends, the window paper almost bursts, and the other party is not aware of it, so it is not ignorance, but indifference.
2. When the nerves in the relationship are getting bigger, it will not be so easy to have a state of mind towards you.
A person's emotional changes are positively related to the care of people and things to be dealt with in Chengdu.
The more she cares about you and this relationship, the more likely she is to have emotional changes or even breakdown. Of course, negativity is always unsightly, but it is certainly a way for many people to show they care.
So, in the same girl's body, she can have a relationship breakup for a boy she likes, but it is difficult for her to turn around and cause the slightest disturbance to a person she hates.
3. I will also take the initiative to contact you. I don’t care if you take the initiative to contact her.
Most girls tend to be more passive when dealing with boys they like, especially during the ambiguous period.
In other words, it is easy to be inconsistent and forgetful. I'm afraid you're too boring, I'm afraid I'm too humble... Even if I miss you, I won't work too often and would rather ask you out.
But it’s different for girls who don’t like you. They are lighter at their core and think less and less. They think their current situation is more important than your opinion.
So, if I want to chat with you, it doesn’t matter if it’s boring. Nature is likely to end at any time and at any time. In fact, it was time for them to go do other things.
It’s her feelings for you that come and go.
4. It is not easy to consciously pay attention to the image in front of you.
The entire social inertial force environment is love in the city, and a woman’s love for beauty is shared by everyone. When she meets someone she likes, she will stand out even more.
So, there is such a funny joke: "I think it is important for professionals to wash their hair."
In other words, if you are not picky, she would rather carry a big bag on her back. With her oily hair right in front of you, you can make fun of her once or twice, but you don’t want to waste time and energy on dressing up deliberately.
5. The standards are very clear and seem to be self-contained.
When chatting on weekdays, it can be very obvious that you don’t like your girl. Overall, it seems that my profile is relatively clear and my standards are strong, so it's not easy to intentionally follow your discussion topics and aesthetic standards. They prefer to be simple and crude, even if there are contradictions.
Secondly, they don’t think from the perspective of a “boyfriend”, and then just recite the old saying that gives them extra points;
When talking to you, you practice You gain a lot of your own perspective - even if you know it clearly and express it, the actual effect may not be easy.
6. If the situation is not good, you will not cater to it. Once you are unhappy, you will go away quickly.
“Pleasing” does not exclude a pleasing personality.
When we like someone, our instinctive reaction is naturally to please them. This tendency to please is an idea of ??initial genetic improvement, helping us to pre-emptively win the favor of the other party and achieve our goal.
But on the contrary, when a person has no tendency to please himself, and does not even consider your emotions when he speaks or does things, he basically doesn't like you.
The inevitable trend is that she must be more decisive when leaving. When he feels that he can't get along with you, or feels that the two of you are different, she will basically not hesitate to stay put, but will directly downplay the contact with you, and even forget that there is a person like you.
7. I don’t care about sharing my relationship history or current emotional state with you.
The less a person cares about anything, the more openly he can talk about life.
She talks less and does more, but she is not afraid of losing.
Especially in relationships, if a girl is really ready to strengthen contact with you, she will definitely describe her love history carefully to expose her flaws, let alone take the initiative to discuss her current relationship status with you. Cultivate a connection with a boy.
8. He doesn’t lose his temper easily and has no desire to be exclusive.
This is also the last trick: play hard to get.
If you are very close to another friend of the opposite sex, or have an ambiguous relationship, why not show it bravely and find out her first reaction. Note: It must be the first reaction, because instinctive reaction is the worst way to deceive people.
If you notice her obvious mood swings, or even a strong smell of jealousy, it is basically another manifestation of "love";
But on the contrary, if she doesn't care, or even sincerely You are happy and ask when you can attend the wedding... then basically there will be no drama.
It is not difficult to see that, based on the above, girls who do not like you will treat you as a brother:
They will not talk about love with you, only talk about real actors.
Which restaurant is delicious? What movies are good to watch? How to solve this situation? Why are you so poorly dressed today?
And girls who like you are more likely to treat you as a "boyfriend":
They will also have expectations for you, have mood swings towards you, and want your care and attention. Intimacy, exclusive desire and dependence on you.
