The same goes for chasing girls. Some boys can heat up the relationship within a short time of chatting, and even ask out to meet directly. But if you chat for a long time, let alone ask out, the girl won’t even bother to say hello. What is the reason for this?
Today, the editor will tell you by analyzing some WeChat chat records of chasing girls. How do you get a girl you like.
1. Provide value first, then ask for it
Most boys behave like the above when chasing girls. This is the chat in this chat history.
When chatting on WeChat, if you keep asking girls like this without providing interesting topics, you will either be directly blocked by the girl, or you will be treated coldly and perfunctorily by the girl.
In other words, if you want to attract a girl to be interested in you, then you have to be a person who can provide value to her, tell her the common sense and opinions that you can help her with, and give the girl Bring fresh and interesting experiences, rather than seeking attention in a show-off and pretentious mood.
For example:
2. Avoid being overly concerned
Sometimes , the reason why you are a bit "dog-licking" in the eyes of girls is because you talk too much!
My dear It is absolutely okay to express concern for a girl when she is sick, but it must be done in moderation!
Excessive concern and too low a posture can easily arouse the girl's resentment. She has a cold. It's enough for you to give her a box of cold medicine and say "get some rest", but you still want to be her mother-in-law. Really, it seems too rude.
Many boys like to chat awkwardly when they are chasing girls. You think this is to avoid being cold, but in fact it just makes you look bored.
The person who can speak must not be the one who talks the most, but the one who speaks the most valuable words.
There is no need to talk for fear of being cold. Silence is golden. Appropriate silence will make your words carry more weight.
3. Improving yourself is the key
Wasting other people’s time is equal to murder! So you must be an interesting person and let girls passively gain interest in chatting with you. things and experiences.
If you could only talk about family ethics TV series, how boring your daily work is, and vulgar jokes, but through daily practice, you can later talk about movies, art exhibitions, and dramas, then you don’t have to worry about not meeting them. Appreciate your soulmate.
In addition, a person who can chat will definitely not only chat about himself. You must learn to build a comfortable chat environment.Get girls involved.
If she is proficient in a certain aspect, you can let her be a narrator and you can just listen.
When flirting with girls, the important thing is not to make yourself comfortable with what you say, but to make each other feel comfortable; to tease girls, then you first Make a girl feel very comfortable chatting with you, and then she will continue chatting with you and have a follow-up.
