I don’t know if you have heard of consumptive love? I think many friends are still unfamiliar with this term, so today we will discuss what consumptive love means, and by the way, check it out yourself, if You are experiencing a consuming love, so please stop your losses in time.
First of all, it needs to be emphasized that giving in love does not mean consumption. Giving to each other is a kind of positive energy that can make two people move upward, but consumptive love is exactly the opposite. It will continue to consume your own energy, showing a trend of sinking deeper and deeper, and your own state will also decline. Will become more and more depressed.
Therefore, we must learn how to distinguish. I hope everyone can keep the following points in mind:
1. Don’t overflow your father’s love and always want to save the other person from getting into the quagmire. . Generally, in this situation, you are consuming yourself. Unless you are extremely rational, mature and strong in all aspects, otherwise, in the end, you will be consumed and you will be involved.
2. Why does consumptive love usually take a long time to come out? Because your own foundation is relatively weak, and then you keep consuming it. The harm caused by this consumptive relationship is huge. Yes, when you react later, you will need to spend a lot of time repairing your own weak foundation.
3. With constant consumption, you will become more and more sensitive, lose your own judgment, and continue to lower your bottom line, which will also begin to affect your own life.
4. A breakup is a breakup. If you don’t want to break up and there is a conflict, just solve the problem. Don’t drag it out for a long time. The more you do this, the more you will be overdrawn. Each other's feelings, the good things in the relationship will eventually be consumed, and nothing will be left.
5. Don’t break up with others unreasonably, and don’t just ask, squeeze, and control the other person to satisfy your own selfish desires.
6. Remember, you fall in love for pleasure, so that each other can become each other’s motivation, become better people, and build a better life. Don't let yourself be sad, worrying about gains and losses, and collapse all day long, which will become a hindrance to your progress.
If 80% of the time in a relationship is low and sinking, then you should reconsider the positioning of your relationship.
Either both parties make changes, or the break is over. The more indecisive and hesitant you are, the greater the cost will be, and the greater the cost will be to the harm to both people. The bigger.
