When women treat men who pursue themselves, they often subconsciously divide them into two categories: lovers and providers, and treat these two categories of people differently. So what does a provider mean, and what is the difference between a provider and a lover?
1. A provider is What does it mean
The so-called provider is a man who can provide support value to a woman. It is what women often say, "maybe not suitable for love, but he is quite down-to-earth and honest." The value of support can be giving red envelopes, buying gifts, treating people to dinner, acting as free labor, working as a cash machine, etc.
Usually when it comes to donors, we are talking about "pure donors". From the perspective of cooperation between men and women, it is understandable that a man provides a certain amount of support to a woman as a normal cooperative relationship. The problem is that in the eyes of women, "pure providers" can only provide support value but cannot make women's hearts flutter. They are the type of women who are unwilling to fall in love.
A woman gets along with her provider just to obtain the value of the provider. In layman's terms, it means that a woman just wants to enjoy the treatment like a girlfriend, but will not fulfill any of the obligations of a girlfriend. Once a woman meets a lover-type man who makes her heartbeat and has feelings, or the provider is incompetent or no longer provides support value, the woman will leave the provider.
To put it simply, women only enjoy the support of their providers, and will eventually choose a lover-type man to fall in love with, because a lover-type man is what women really like.
2. The difference between a lover and a provider
When a woman meets a man, she Subconsciously, you either think he is a lover-type man or he is a provider-type man. There is basically no vague type in between. And once a woman labels you as a provider, you can easily get rid of it. If you behave like a provider when you are with a woman, you will be immediately classified as a provider. Except for the support value you can provide to women, no other value will be what women want.
For example, deliberately take a woman to some places that are beyond your consumption range, please the woman without any principles, buy her luxury goods and brand-name bags, and take her to spend money when she has nothing to do. Ordinary men think that this way they can win the favor of the other person. But in fact, if you do this, you will become a provider faster.
When a woman faces her provider, once the provider tries to get out of the provider's small box, she will shame him into being a second-class man. .
For example, do you want to see me next time? If you do this again, I will block you. Once the provider tries to stop providing support value, it is equivalent to losing all value in front of the woman, and you can disappear.
A lover-type man is a man who can truly make a woman “feel”. He doesn't need to provide women with too much provider value, and women will be willing to be with them, because women themselves like them. A woman doesn’t want a lover-type man to feel that she is worldly. What she needs is the lover-type man’s love, not simply his support value.
