Asking questions is one of the common methods used by many boys to pursue girls. Because many boys say that they need to make girls get used to their greetings. When one day they stop asking after them, the girls will know that they like you. So is this method really effective? Do you need to greet a girl when you are chasing her?
1. Find your own position
In the eyes of many boys, of course their attitudes towards the girls they like are different. I met a girl I liked, and then started pursuing her fiercely, asking her every day if she was awake? Have you eaten? Have you slept? When greeting girls, you take it for granted that girls will be moved by your warmth. But what is the actual situation?
In fact, boys want to treat girls well in the same way as girls. Of course there is nothing wrong with this, but the problem lies in "shush" and "ask"! Why do you say this? Because you care about the girl because you like her, but in the eyes of the girl, you are still an ordinary friend/new friend. At this time, caring too much about the girl will put pressure on her and make her want to run away from you!
It takes time for us to go from strangers to familiarity, and chatting is the most critical step in establishing a relationship between two people. Let’s think about it, what would it be like for two people to become familiar with each other quickly? The answer is to chat about interests together, chat about hobbies together, complain together, and talk about all kinds of unnutritious things. The most important thing is to feel comfortable while chatting.
Looking back, if you fell in love with a girl at first sight, and you just met her and told her not to stay up late, go to bed early and get up early, drink more hot water... you have crossed the line, because these words are between you and her. You can only say this when a girl is relatively close to you. Being like this now will make the girl feel uncomfortable and uncomfortable. This is a big taboo in the process of pursuing a girl!
2. Attraction is the core
No matter what stage you are with a girl, the most important thing is that you can attract her. What you should do is actually show more of your value and build attraction. Instead of "treating the girl as your girlfriend" and then caring and caring for her, the girl will think that you are her so-and-so, and just meddle in things. If you really get together in the future, it will be fine.
In addition to attracting, of course you can also show concern for girls in your own position instead of asking for help, such as girls When your aunt is here, you can say at the end of the chat with her, "I will make an appointment with a friend to work out later, so let's not talk about it for now. Drink more hot water and have a good rest." Of course, the premise is that you and her just talked The chat is successful, that is, the girl enjoys chatting with you. Only in this way can the care expressed incidentally be effective and make her look forward to the next chat with you. Moreover, men who can maintain fitness are also a major factor in attracting girls.
Finally, I would like to warn the boys that asking for help will not impress a girl with your attentiveness. Instead, it will make her feel that you are annoying because you are pestering her. So when you have time, you should improve yourself more and attract the girls you like.
