Blind dating is a traditional method of marriage and love. Through arrangements by family, friends or a matchmaking agency, men and women meet and communicate to find a partner that suits them. However, during the blind date, sometimes there will be obvious signs of failure. For example, the girl on the blind date never takes the initiative to contact the other party. This behavior actually implies some information.
1. Not interested in the other person
If a girl on a blind date never takes the initiative to contact the other person, it is probably because she is not interested in the other person. After a blind date, if a girl is satisfied and has a good impression of a boy, she will usually take the initiative to contact him to express her attitude and wishes. But if a girl has never taken the initiative to contact a boy, it means that she has no interest in him.
2. Don’t want to give hope to the other party
Another possible reason is that girls don’t want to give hope to the other party. Some girls may feel that there is not much in common or potential room for development between the two, so they choose not to contact each other proactively to avoid misunderstandings or expectations. Doing so can reduce the other party's distress and harm.
3. Not confident in themselves
Some girls may not have enough confidence in themselves and feel that they are not good enough or do not meet the other person’s requirements. Therefore, they choose not to contact each other proactively to avoid being rejected or facing an embarrassing situation. This behavior shows that girls are emotionally fragile and need more time and security to build trust in each other.
4. Don’t want to take the initiative to take responsibility
Another reason is that girls don’t want to take the initiative to take responsibility. During the blind date, if a girl takes the initiative to contact the other party, it means that she is willing to further develop the relationship and assumes the responsibility of promoting the development of the relationship. But if the girl never takes the initiative to contact the other party, then she can leave this responsibility entirely to the boy and let him decide whether to continue pursuing the relationship.
5. Skepticism about blind date methods
The last possible reason is that girls are skeptical about blind date methods. Although blind date is a traditional way of marriage and love, it is not suitable for everyone. Some girls may think that it is difficult to truly understand each other through blind dates, and prefer to find a suitable partner through other means. Therefore, they choose not to actively contact each other to express their doubts and disapproval of the blind date method.
The fact that girls on a blind date never take the initiative to contact the other party implies that they are not interested in the other party, do not want to give the other party hope, have no confidence in themselves, do not want to take the initiative to take responsibility, or are skeptical of the blind date method. Although this kind of behavior may make boys feel confused or disappointed, it is also girls expressing their true thoughts and attitudes.
