Some women seem to find it difficult to trust someone in a relationship, not because her character is so suspicious, but because she has been emotionally hurt, so it is not easy to trust someone again. Below we will share with you what are the characteristics of women who have been hurt in relationships?
1. No longer have hope for love
Women who have been hurt by love generally have a more thorough understanding of love affairs, and are sensitive and defensive. I can no longer trust men, I don’t believe that there is someone who will really protect me forever, I am afraid of getting married, I am afraid of the man’s mother. Even if I fall in love again, I will speculate about this man's purpose, imagine that something will happen later, or I will say something duplicitous, and he will suddenly leave. Imagine what problems you would have if you married this new boyfriend. I feel that it would be great not to get married, but I don’t have the courage to face the storm alone. Wait for all the negative energy...Finally break up...Once bitten by a snake, I will be afraid of straw ropes for ten years.
2. Avoiding the opposite sex
A woman who has been hurt in a relationship, after a breakup , when facing the opposite sex, you will have a kind of deep-rooted fear. Even if you meet a boy you like, you will still be afraid in your heart. You feel that this boy may be like your ex, and you no longer believe in the boy's words. Usually, they are more willing to communicate with the same sex and avoid the opposite sex. Occasionally, there may be friends who are willing to accept a partner, but because they already know how to refuse, they just let it go.
3. Extremely pessimistic about love
Some women will change their personalities and become pessimistic after a breakup. , no longer have any expectations for the future, no longer smile easily, become completely realistic, extremely ideal, and of course extremely pessimistic about love. Not willing to contact the opposite sex, and resisting anyone's approach. Even, he no longer socializes and often isolates himself from the world. Prefer to make friends with the same sex and reject the opposite sex. Even if someone of the opposite sex approaches, give them a warning and just be friends. Slowly, I lost the ability to love and be loved, and I couldn't give my sincerity.
4. Numbing yourself with busyness
A woman who has been emotionally injured cannot like other people. There is no way to accept other people. When someone new treats her well, she will desperately want to escape and feel guilty, and will even hate the person who likes her, and then reject them without mercy. Maybe she clamors to get out of singlehood every day, but when she actually implements it, she doesn't have any thoughts to focus on it. She would rather have a full life, work hard every day, numb herself with busyness, and have no time to find a partner. , and then tell yourself that when you are so busy, when should you be looking for a partner, and you are deceiving yourself indefinitely.
If you meet a woman who has been hurt in a relationship, you have to understand that she was once a person who could open her heart to love, but now she is just putting herself Closed. As long as you can make her open her heart again, you are the most special person to her.
