When we like a girl and pay for her, we actually want to let the girl see how good you are through this kind of dedication, so she agrees to be with you. So the question is, will continued efforts pay off?
If you really like a girl, treat her so well that she won’t have anything to say. You give her gifts when you have something to do, give her an umbrella when it rains, and pick her up from get off work. Every message is answered instantly, and you remember every word she says. I never hesitate to spend money on her, and I don’t know how to raise fish. If you pay like this when chasing girls, then you will definitely lose miserably.
In short, if a boy is unconditionally good to a girl, so good that almost all the details can be taken care of, then it is unlikely to get a good result in the end.
Why do you say that? This has a lot to do with this concept of energy loss in the Law of Attraction. Because when you are trying to gain the other person's favor and the other person's liking for you by being nice to the other person. At this time, you will undoubtedly become a weak person. The world doesn't like weak people anyway. Being weak means having no money, no charm, no ability, and no emotional value.
If you continue to give to the other person, you will lose your own energy and charm, making you, who might have been more outstanding, colorless in the other person's world.
At this point, you may have to ask me, How should we guide girls to give?
When you have given a lot to girls, you must also learn to make demands for girls, such as:
Dating When you feel thirsty after shopping for a long time, you can ask her to buy you a bottle of water.
Help her carry a lot of things, and when you sit down to rest, let her rub your shoulders.
Work overtime until midnight, fearing that you won’t be able to get up the next day, so ask her to call you early in the morning to wake you up.
Take her home to cook together, let her go to the vegetable market with you to buy food, prepare ingredients in the kitchen, and prepare a delicious dinner together.
When you do something that makes her happy, let her kiss you.
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Gradually increase the level of her investment, and let her get used to investing and paying for you little by little.
No matter what a girl gives you, whether it is big or small , you have to praise her. When you meet her, praise her for dressing up nicely; praise her for preparing a gift for you; praise her for doing you a favor! This is a psychologicalIncentive mechanism, if she does a lot of things for you but you don't respond at all, you will be disappointed no matter what.
In short: It is definitely necessary to learn to guide girls to give to you. If you don’t want to give unilaterally and then get kicked, then you must work hard for it.