Although many couples fall in love at first sight, their relationship never lasts. So is it really not suitable for the person who makes your heart beat the first time you meet? In fact, it is not, but true love always has its traces. Let’s take a look at the signs of a long-lasting relationship.
1. Transform your heart into a suitable one
I want to know if the person who fell in love at first sight is Whether he is a good partner for you depends not on how good he is to you, but on his attitude towards strangers.
For example, when eating, look at his attitude towards the waiter; when taking a bus, look at his attitude towards your driver.
A fan shared her relationship experience backstage before. She and her boyfriend met at a mutual friend’s wedding. It was love at first sight. After knowing each other for a week, they got together.
After they got together, her boyfriend was really nice to her. Not to mention being obedient, he also responded to her requests. However, her boyfriend was not so patient with others, especially strangers. < /p>
What really made the girl decide to break up was when she was ordering takeout that day. The delivery boy was 5 minutes late due to traffic jam. He called in advance to explain the situation and apologized sincerely.
But my boyfriend scolded me at the door for ten minutes. Finally, my boyfriend lost his temper. He told me in front of me that he would not leave a negative review, but he turned around and gave me a negative review.
The girl shuddered a little when she heard her boyfriend complaining about the takeaway boy. Now he likes her, so he treats her well. If one day he doesn't like her anymore, will he treat her the same way he treats other people? Own.
The attitude of service staff can reveal a person’s basic upbringing. He or she may have nothing, but at least he must be a good person.
2. Do you insist on your own hobbies?
Many people will fall into a love trap and feel that the other person The more I change for you and the more I give up for you, the more I love you.
But if you think about it carefully, if he can give up his original job, existing study plan, and even his own life plan for you.
Then will he give up your love because of other more important things?
Of course, appropriate changes in the relationship can enhance the relationship.
But change, like compromise, must have a bottom line. Change without a bottom line means either that he or she has no definite character, or that his love is not actually true.How much value.
3. Real-time emotional control
Some couples will suddenly suspect each other when they quarrel or have disagreements. Whether it suits me or not, I wonder whether this love-at-first-sight relationship is reliable.
We all know that absolutely ideal love does not exist, so when your partner says something or does something that makes you uncomfortable or even disgusted.
Don’t rush to deny the feelings between you. Give him a chance and give yourself a chance.
If the overall feeling he gives you the next day is still comfortable and comfortable, then your relationship can continue, but if you are with him, you will always think of those unpleasant things. experience.
If you even have the thought of breaking up more than once, then you really need to think carefully about whether you should continue the relationship or break up as soon as possible.
Since at least 80% of couples who fall in love at first sight will break up within three months, you might as well fill up your love for three months.
If after three months, you still feel most comfortable with him, then what if you fell in love at first sight?
Love has thousands of forms. If you get it, you are lucky.
