Best friend literally means close friend among the besties, so it has always been an exclusive pronoun between girls. But now many girls regard boys as their best friends, so the term male best friend comes into being. So what happens when a girl you like asks you to be her best friend? Now, let’s first understand what it means when a girl asks you to be her best friend.
1. What does a girl mean by asking you to be her best friend?
In the eyes of boys, It is difficult to have true friendship between men and women. If you are very close to a girl, you will either be together or just return to being just friends. But in the eyes of girls, it is different, because they do not pay too much attention to the results, but focus on the process and their own emotions and feelings. Therefore, when the relationship between the two parties is already very close, in addition to treating the boy as a boyfriend, it is also possible to treat the boy as a "boyfriend".
After all, when a girl has some little secrets in her heart, due to the potential sense of competition between the same sex and the belief that the same sex cannot understand her thoughts and problems, she will feel ashamed in the same-sex group, so she dare not go with her. If you talk to your same-sex friends, you can only talk to your opposite-sex male best friends, to share your secrets and emotions, and use them as emotional tree holes. If you don't know how to guide you at this time and just accept it blindly, you will eventually become an emotional trash can and become a male best friend.
Another situation is that she has a certain liking for you, but she just doesn’t have the courage to communicate with you in a deeper way, but she doesn’t want to give up, so she makes such a request.
2. Is it possible for a girl to ask you to be her best friend?
Obviously, if it is the first In this situation, if a girl has something to talk to you about, but you are always a listener, then this situation is out of the question.
And if it is the second situation, your relationship is already very close, then her words are a test of your sincerity, and what you have to do at this time is to confess! Of course, we can't just say it directly. Saying "I don't want to be your best friend, I want to be your boyfriend" will only make the atmosphere very awkward, and may even lead to rejection by the girl.
Instead, express your feelings tactfully, such as:
Female: Let’s be best friends
Male: Okay, then you should act like best friends from now on. Be nice to me
Female: How can you do that?
Male: Make me some delicious food, let’s play together, sleep together at night, and be together every day
Female ：hate
When faced with a girl’s request, just agree, don’t rush to explain, here we grasp the key points in the girl’s words The word "best friend" extends the topicStretch out, "make delicious food", "play together", "sleep together" and "get tired of being together every day" to create a scene for the girl to get along with as best friends. She is pulled into it and entangled together, so that she can be very happy at the same time. If you remember what girls say about being best friends, you can also dominate the conversation and tease girls during the chat.
And the scenes created are based on the scenes that occur when you become best friends with a girl. They are provided by the girl on her own initiative, which can avoid embarrassing situations.
