When chasing girls, if boys can take the initiative to upgrade the intimate relationship and cultivate feelings, the probability of being single will be greatly increased. Next, the editor will talk to you about how to quickly develop an ambiguous relationship with girls.
1. Emotional stimulation
Girls really hope to find a mature, steady and gentlemanly boyfriend. This will give her a sufficient sense of security.
But at the same time, she also hopes that the boy who pursues her can be more humorous and a little less serious, because such a bad boy can give her the freshness and excitement she wants.
Many friends are too concerned about their image and dare not joke with girls or open ambiguous topics, so that they become good friends of girls and watch her fall into the arms of other men.
If you can’t make a girl blush, make her heart beat, and feel like a deer bumping into you through chatting, it’s almost impossible for a girl to agree to further develop a relationship with you.
So how can you prevent a girl from thinking you are frivolous and yet make her attracted to you?
You can use push-pull flirting to chat with girls.
Pushing is to push girls away through teasing and reduce your sense of need. Pulling means bringing you closer to a girl through compliments and other methods, giving her an ambiguous feeling.
This kind of back-and-forth approach can make girls have great emotional fluctuations and quickly heat up your relationship.
2. Role play
Many friends don’t know how to judge a girl’s favorability. If you are careful, you will cross the line and be disgusted by girls.
Using role-playing chat methods can not only shorten the psychological distance between you and girls, but also help you get rid of the constraints of your real identity and avoid making girls think you are too purposeful.
In short, the role-playing chat method is to bring the girl into the plot and give her a Different emotional experiences.
When chatting normally, we cannot directly make girls feel a lot of emotions, and then it is difficult to mobilize girls' emotions and make her feel excited about us.
Through this method, we can lead the girl to fantasize as she pleases and bring her little excitement and surprises that are difficult to experience in real life.
It can also help you create a comfortable and relaxed chat atmosphere, quickly heat up the relationship between two people, and make girls unconsciously want to have deeper communication with you.
3. Talk about private topics
Most single men are chatting with girls, they were all chatting about daily topics such as whether they had eaten or what they were doing.
Although these topics can be discussed, they will do little to enhance the ambiguous relationship between you.
If you want to achieve an ambiguous relationship, when chatting with girls, you will inevitably talk about some private topics.
The most important thing when talking about personal topics with girls is to do it step by step.
Otherwise it will expose your neediness, put too much emotional pressure on girls, and make your relationship very awkward.
At the beginning, you can talk to the girl about your views on love. Topics such as little secrets will not be too ambiguous and can increase the sense of intimacy.
If you can add in time that this is a little secret between the two of us, you can add an ambiguous atmosphere to your relationship, and girls will involuntarily treat you as one of their own.
When a girl is successfully attracted to you, you can try to talk to her about some more in-depth topics.
For example, her pajamas style, the scent of her shower gel, her sleeping habits, whether she likes to sleep in pajamas or naked, etc.
You know, girls rarely take the initiative to express their thoughts. Sometimes even if they like you very much, they will not tell you directly. If you fail to take the initiative to develop the relationship in depth in a timely manner, your relationship will gradually become cold as time goes by. Therefore, if you want to successfully get together with a girl, you must learn to guide the girl to talk about ambiguous topics during the chat.
