Many boys’ methods of chasing girls are nothing more than stalking or playing hard to get. Stalking means keeping pestering the girl until she knows that the girl is used to accepting you; playing hard to get means giving a girl hope and deliberately hanging her, then this Which of the two ways to chase girls is better? Let’s talk about pursuing a girl by stalking her or playing hard to get. In fact, attraction is the best way to chase girls!
1. What is stalking and chasing girls?
Stalking is actually working hard on girls and pursuing girls unremittingly. When girls are temporarily unable to find a better one, When you are with someone, if she sees that you are so persistent, she may become soft-hearted and stay with you for a while. But this way of stalking and impressing a girl will not make her fall in love with you. She is only temporarily moved and sympathized with you, so she will choose to give it a try.
Stalking is also a method, but it is undeniable that it is also the least efficient method. If you don’t know how to maintain feelings and build attraction, this kind of touching and sympathy will soon disappear over time. Generally, in 1-2 weeks, the girl will send you a good person card: "You are a good person, but we really inappropriate”.
2. What is playing hard to get to chase a girl?
The so-called playing hard to get after a girl means that you are very enthusiastic about the girl at the beginning, but when she gets to know you, you immediately become cold to her and let her I am thinking about you (why doesn’t he come to chat with me anymore), maybe a girl will take the initiative to come and chat with you. It seems reasonable, but the actual effect is very poor.
Because when you really want to indulge, that is, when you can become cold to a girl, it means that you You don't have much interest in this girl, or you have already moved on and fallen in love with another girl. In this case, even if the assistant girl comes to you, you probably won't be very touched. And if you really like a girl, then you can't help but be cold to her for a long time, and you can't help but go find her.
Moreover, girls are very smart and keen animals. How can she still know about your little tricks? Because playing hard to get can easily lead to self-defeation, most of the people who use this trick are clumsy little boys, whose emotional intelligence is already lower than that of girls, and it is too easy to be seen through. The so-called deliberately ignoring girls to attract her to talk to you is just an extremely shallow and inferior strategy. Girls will define you as insincere.
3. Chasing girls still depends on attraction
A long-term relationship should be one where both parties are attracted to each other, see each other’s strengths and progress every day, and have mutual love and respect. Only by building a solid foundation can your feelings for the other person become increasingly solid. If you don't attract a girl in the first place, and she sees you every day with all your faults and problems, and is incompatible with her ideal boyfriend, how can you keep her? And you go low three times a day4. Or acting shamelessly is actually very annoying and does not bring any good feelings at all.
So if you want to catch up with girls, you should make yourself better and attract girls. Don’t be a toad wanting to eat swan meat all day long. If you yourself are not good enough, no matter what you do, it will be in vain.
