During the period of novelty in love, it is the happiest time for couples, but the novelty passes easily. Many couples lose the novelty of coming here and feel that coming here is not interesting and want to break up. So when the novelty of dating is gone, will they break up? Of course not. Although many couples have lost the novelty of love, their relationship is still happy.
1. Learn to create freshness
Many people think that if love loses the freshness, they need to find another person. In fact, no, freshness is not about experiencing the old with new people. Instead, you should experience new things with that old person, such as traveling to places you have never been to before, doing exciting sports that you have never done together... Anyway, it is always the same person, that person who doesn't know how to do it. To change, we need to learn to have some fun in life, get in touch with new things together, and cultivate some common fun. After all, we still have to live for many years, maybe a lifetime.
2. Give each other a little private space
It is normal for a relationship to lack freshness after a long period of time. Generally, When you don't contact each other often or are too tired of each other, you will hate each other at this time, feel that the other person is very clingy, both of you will be distressed, and you will often quarrel. It is indeed easy to break up at this time, but! careful! You will definitely regret breaking up! The lack of novelty is temporary. You should be considerate of each other and give each other some private space. During this period, don't have too much contact with your partner, but don't stop contacting them either. You must try your best to surprise the other person and cater to their preferences.
3. Calmly think about whether you need to continue
In fact, there will be a sense of freshness in the process of falling in love. Yes, you may meet someone who is better than you like when you are in a relationship with your partner. At this time, you will compare your partner with this person, and slowly start to get tired of your partner. If you handle it well, the novelty will pass quickly. If you don't handle the relationship well, you have to say goodbye. When facing your own novelty, you can temporarily keep a certain distance from the partner, and tell him that during this period, we should calmly think about whether this relationship will continue. If you miss the other person during the calm time, then Let’s take good care of this relationship. Why should you keep a distance? Because in the novelty stage, you will feel disgusted with the other person, so you should keep a certain distance. Let’s talk about it after we think about it.
When it comes to love, the relationship will become dull in the end. Some people get through it smoothly, and some people part ways. And if you want to keep the freshness of a relationship for a long time, you have to rely on the feelings that attracted the other person in the first place to maintain it. Don't try to keep the freshness of falling in love with another person, otherwise you will never find someone who is completely compatible with you.Because emotional harmony depends on mutual tolerance and mutual understanding, it is unrealistic to rely on substitution.
